Two is oh-so-much better
for cleaning up.
If you had told me ten years ago that cleaning up, and just the general business of living together was, almost, as important as sex, I would have really laughed at you.
It’s important that both of those things happen in a good marriage, even if it involves some work. Plus the value of it increases with time.
And when one person leaves, let’s say, for a two week trip to American Samoa (and leaves you alone with two kids)---
you’re pretty happy to have that person back.
How awesome is my ten-years-ago teenage brother?
The angst-icon for a new generation.